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Wahoooo! 🎉 Thanks for registering for the Beforeplay Template — and genuinely, nice choice.
Most of us were never taught how to talk about desire, limits, timing, or care before things get charged. We’re expected to magically know what we want, how to ask for it, and how to stay connected once bodies and emotions are involved. That’s a tall order.
Beforeplay is a way to slow things down just enough to bring clarity, kindness, and consent back into the room — while everyone’s still clothed, regulated, and actually able to choose. Communication isn’t the opposite of desire. For many people, it’s the lubricant that makes everything else smoother, safer, and more enjoyable.
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<--------In the meantime, please check out my BLOG post 'The Art of the Pre-Game' about the Beforeplay Template & Conversation Guide, to give you even more context into the heart that went into creating this resource.
A gentle permission slip:
Before you use the template with anyone else, try reading it once just for yourself. Notice what feels easy to answer, what gives you pause, and what you’ve never quite had language for before. That awareness alone is already doing the work.
Before you use the template with anyone else, try reading it once just for yourself. Notice what feels easy to answer, what gives you pause, and what you’ve never quite had language for before. That awareness alone is already doing the work.
You don’t need to do this perfectly. You don’t need to use every section. Even one honest conversation can shift the entire tone of connection.
I’m really glad you’re here.
Warmly,
-Kristin
Kristin Warnaca
Wilder Intimacy
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