Gifts from the heart
FREE VISUALIZATION: a guided audio relaxation session

Free Gifts!
Most of us were never taught how to talk about desire, limits, timing, or care before things get charged. We’re expected to magically know what we want, how to ask for it, and how to stay connected once bodies and emotions are involved. Communication and consent are not the opposite of desire—for many people, they are the lubricant. Safety is what sets the foundation for fulfilling, erotic, and meaningful experiences.

The Beforeplay Template is a simple, humane starting place—a way to slow the moment down just enough to bring clarity, kindness, and choice back into the room. It includes clear examples, language prompts, and the full spectrum of consent (yes, no, maybe, not now, under certain conditions) so you’re not guessing or negotiating in the heat of the moment.

 The Beforeplay Conversation happens with clothes on and eyes open, creating space to name capacity, boundaries, curiosities, and care before pressure or misunderstanding creeps in. It’s not about rules or scripts—it’s about helping everyone arrive with agency, mutual respect, and a shared sense of safety.


Music shapes mood, pace, and presence. These playlists are curated as musical arcs—ranging from slow, romantic, textured, and atmospheric soundscapes that invite the senses to soften and open, to explicit, body-forward beats that bring heat, rhythm, and momentum, to moody, naughtier-than-nice spice for edge and intensity.

Choose what fits the moment you’re in—or the one you’re curious to explore. Think of these as musical ambiance aphrodisiacs, designed to support different moods of aliveness rather than tell you how to feel.




Most people think a “pleasure chest” starts and ends in an adult store or has to come with a charger, fit in a bedside drawer or directly involve genitals. That makes sense—we’ve been taught that pleasure lives behind blacked-out windows, novelty packaging, and a very specific aesthetic (black & red, anyone?). 

But the truth is, powerful erotic and intimate experiences and sensations don’t just come from specialty shops, they come from ordinary places: your kitchen drawer, the craft aisle, a thrift store, a music playlist, a scarf you already love. Pleasure stops being something you buy and starts becoming something you notice. The links included here are offering creative ideas and thoughtfully chosen items that invite exploration across a wide range of sensations, preferences and moods.
If life is a journey... it's more fun with a trusted guide! I'd love to walk the path with you... let's explore what's possible for you!
"You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
For a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine. Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.

Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air, are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting — over and over announcing your place
in the family of things."
Mary Oliver