Professional Sex & Intimacy Coaching Bend Oregon

Worldwide Virtual Coaching

Wilder Intimacy serves clients globally through virtual coaching, with select in-person offerings available in Central Oregon.

Specialties

With 7 coaching certifications and over 12,000 client hours, I can help you move the needle in the areas you need the most help, from the executive boardroom to the bedroom or the birthing room.

SEX & RELATIONSHIPS

Wilder Intimacy™ | Green Flag Dating™ | Naked and Unashamed™

Devotional Kink ™ - the Art of Spiritual D/s | Wheel of Consent ® | Somatic Shibari Storytelling™

Integrity & Karmic Repair | BDSM Life Coaching

MINDSET REWIRING & HYPNOTHERAPY

Rapid Cognitive Rewiring | Accelerated Coherence™ Processes | Intense Experience Integration | Hypnotherapy

LIFE NAVIGATION & BALANCE

Life Coaching

Testimonial

"Do you want to feel more joy in your life? That is what you need to ask yourself if you're considering coaching with Kristin. Kristin is an intuitive guide and bridge to love that leads you back to yourself for inner healing so it is possible to hold more joy.

She effortlessly creates a safe container for you to identify self-limiting behaviors, then offers many tools from a vast array of modalities, including deep guided hypnosis meditations, partner conversation templates, and playful storytelling with shibari rope to discover & unwind unconscious attachment patterns.

Her work expedites the healing process for limiting patterns to evolve without getting stuck in a talking-about-it-loop! Kristin helps you reconnect your body, mind, and spirit and brings coherence to what has felt deeply confusing for so long. Kristin's work elevated me out of repetitive narrative loops that many years of traditional talk therapy could not break.

The result of working with Kristin is a sense of lightness with a new awareness so we can show up better for ourselves and our partners." - Jacob Holt

Workshops & Groups

Release → Rewire → Reinhabit.

A Somatic, Nutritional, and Identity Remodel for Perimenopausal Women
8 Mondays, February 16 - April 6, 2026
Live Zoom Experience

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Witness • Reclaim • Liberate →Your Innate Divinity.

Purity Culture, Religious Deconstruction & Erotic Reconstruction

8 weeks, March - April 2026

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For the woman who no longer fragments herself to belong.

A 9-month Initiation of Power, Pleasure, Paradox and Play

fall 2026-summer 2027

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Embracing Your Eros

Launching March 12, 2026

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Why Coaching?

It’s a well known fact that, of all the things successful people do to accelerate their path to success, working with a professional coach is at the top of the list. In fact, private coaching is so impactful that major companies are now assigning personal coaches to high-performing executives and up-and-coming “stars” they’ve identified for future leadership positions. But coaching is not just for business people. Professional athletes, college students, retiring Baby Boomers—plus millions more people from all walks of life—are working with coaches to create the life they want.

As a coach, I bridge the gap from where you are to where you want to go, and help you come home to yourself. I am an empathetic safe space and also an uncompromising truth-teller, always standing for your highest good.

I can help you:

Discover, clarify, and align with the goals, vision, and dreams of what you want to achieve
Encourage your growth, self-discovery & healing journey
Confront your unconscious behaviors and old patterns
Address and unblock limiting beliefs & integrate intense experiences
Co-create specific solutions and strategies to help you achieve your goals
Help you sort through opportunities that arise from your forward momentum
Increase the options that are consciously available to you
Achieve the results that are most important to you

Let's See if we are a match! Zoom Discovery Call

Intimacy & Relationship Coaching

1. Wilder Intimacy^TM

Whole-Body Desire, Honest Connection, Integrated Pleasure

Wilder Intimacy is an embodied intimacy coaching approach for individuals and couples who want more depth, aliveness, and truth in their erotic and relational lives. This work focuses on nervous system regulation, desire literacy, attuned touch, consent, and communication, helping you understand how your body opens to connection, pleasure, and intimacy, and how to meet your partner without pressure or performance. Rather than fixing what’s “wrong,” Wilder Intimacy helps you integrate sensation, emotion, sexuality, and spirituality into a grounded, authentic experience of closeness. The result is intimacy that feels safer, more nourishing, more playful, and more real—on your terms.

2. Naked & Unashamed ^TM_{- Erotic and Spiritual Repair after Religious Shame}

Naked and Unashamed is a restorative journey for people undoing the sexual shame and disconnection left by high-control faith environments. It offers a slow, embodied path back to innocence, agency, and a self-defined sexual ethic grounded in presence and consent.

3. Devotional Kink: The Art of Spiritual D/s ^TM

Devotional Kink explores transcendent states, psychological intimacy, and voluntary, cooperative power exchange as a pathway to deeper connection and meaning. Rather than focusing primarily on physical sensation often the focus of BDSM techniques, this work centers the emotional, psychological, and relational dimensions of kink, where trust, intention, and presence become the primary sources of arousal and bonding. While not rooted in any specific religious tradition, the devotional context brings a sense of reverence, purpose, and sacred significance to D/s dynamics. Devotional Kink coaching supports individuals and couples in cultivating Sacred Union through shared values, clear consent, mutual devotion, and the conscious embracing and amplification of difference, allowing consensual power exchange to become a source of passion, peace, and fulfillment.

4. Green Flag Dating ^TM

You deserve Better. No more settling. Finding Love by Becoming Love.

Green Flag Dating helps you stop settling and start attracting relationships that are healthy, aligned, and nourishing. Through healing past patterns, clarifying what you truly want, and creating a dating profile that reflects your real presence and values, you learn to recognize green flags, set clear boundaries, and navigate modern dating with confidence, ease, and enjoyment.

INTIMACY COACHING: LEARN MORE

"WOW! the more pleasure I have in all aspects of life, the happier and more whole I feel. I listen to my body more. I can't believe I was missing out on this until now."
Erika

"Kristin's work expedites the healing process for limiting patterns to evolve without getting stuck in a 'talking-about-it-loop!' Kristin helps you reconnect your body, mind, and spirit and brings coherence to what has felt deeply confusing for so long. She elevated me out of repetitive narrative loops that many years of traditional talk therapy could not break."
Jacob

Trauma-Informed Mindset Coaching & Hypnotherapy

End Struggle Now & Experience Peak Performance

We all experience both 'big T' and 'little t' traumas, and need help resetting our nervous system & subconscious wiring. I bring 15 years of certified Hypnotherapy and deep mastery of Accelerated Evolution's verbally-guided transformative processes to this work (imagine a blend of EMDR, hypnosis, somatic art therapy, and somatic stress release techniques; this work is gentle & effective & unlike anything you've experienced before).

Dissolve inner conflict, emotional knots & stored trauma, to allow natural peace of mind, flow, and emotional freedom:

People deconstructing from religious trauma (I specialize in helping survivors from the 2x2 cult but work with people from all religious & high-control backgrounds)
First responders: military, police, veterans & wildland firefighters (so you can get back in your Nomex again)
High-performers achieving next-level goals with ease
Survivors of assault, abuse, or healing from the emotional impact of a car accident, stroke, traumatic brain injury or other challenge
Rediscovering a new identity & creating a new story

MINDSET REWIRING & HYPNOSIS: LEARN MOre

Life Coaching, Navigation & Balance

Less stress, refined clarity, defined strategy, & deeper fulfillment.

Oola means living life joyful, wholehearted, and ready to take advantage whenever good times and opportunity appear.

The Oola Life Coaching program is also the proven framework for getting back on track, and finding balance in the 7 key areas of life.

The Oola framework helps people get healthy, eliminate debt, build wealth, move into their dream career, have more fun, create a better circle of friends, resolve lifelong family conflict, find their ultimate life purpose . . . and so much more.

"When I started working with Kristin, I was working two jobs: full-time 9-5, then driving Uber 4 nights/week. I was exhausted, overworked, and living day-to-day. Through the OOLA program and with her accountability & encouragement. my self-worth soared. I was recruited for a much higher-paying job with more vacation time, I went on an international trip for the first time ever! I had NO IDEA how much my life would change from working with Kristin, and I'm forever grateful."
Tammi

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Testimonials

"Kristin has an uncanny ability to ask clarifying questions that cut to the quick and pierce directly to the heart of the matter at hand. She does so with a grace and gentleness that will set you at ease as you do the hard work of digging deep to unearth underlying issues to move past roadblocks, setting you on a path to breakthrough. I'm so grateful for the time I spent with Kristin as my coach!"

- Louise

'Kristin was better than I could have ever hoped. Transparent, honest, encouraging, and inspiring are just a few of the adjectives that describe her. Kristin is an incredible coach, and time spent with her will enrich your life in ways you might never expect.'

- Tanya