Gather With Kristin

This work
doesn't only happen
one-on-one.

Some of the deepest reclamation happens in the presence of others who are also finding their way home. Below are the current ways to gather: virtual and ongoing.

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The Lord's
House

A 3-Week Virtual Immersion · April 2026

You left the church. Or maybe you're still in it, quietly. Either way, you carry it: the doctrine written into your nervous system before you had words for it. The shame that arrived before desire did. The God who was more warden than Father.

This is not a deconstruction course. It is a reclamation. We go into the wreckage, not to live there, but to retrieve what was buried under it. Your desire. Your body. Your permission.

Three sessions. Real time. A container small enough to be intimate, large enough to not be alone in it.

Co-facilitated by Kristin Warnaca & Ayce Kyptyn
The Lord's House
Virtual · Google Meet

April 1

Tuesday · 90 Minutes

Session One: Labeling the Wreckage
Untangling doctrine from identity. What was true, what was installed, and where your own voice lives underneath it.

$33 for all three sessions
Virtual · Google Meet

April 8

Tuesday · 90 Minutes

Session Two: Radical Acceptance
The body as scripture. Reclaiming desire as proof of life, not evidence of sin.

Virtual · Google Meet

April 15

Tuesday · 90 Minutes

Session Three: Devotional Kink & Embodied Liberation
Where spiritual practice, sexual sovereignty, and power exchange meet.

In-Person · Boulder CO

April 3

Thursday · Carnival DNGN

Optional in-person initiation. Saints & Sinners theme. A somatic threshold crossing for those who want to begin in the body, not just on Google Meet.

$199 · separate registration
Virtual Immersion · $33 Boulder In-Person · $199
Full event details at Ayce's site →
What We Move Through

Three weeks. Three thresholds.
One continuous thread.

I

Labeling the Wreckage

You can't heal what you can't see. The first session is about making the invisible visible: naming the doctrines that still run your nervous system, the rules you follow without knowing you follow them, the God you're still half-afraid of even after you stopped believing.

II

Reclaiming Desire

Desire is not a problem to be managed. It is proof of life. The second session moves into the body itself: pleasure as healing technology, curiosity as a spiritual act, the slow work of giving yourself permission to want what you want without apology or explanation.

III

Devotional Kink & Liberation

The final session is where the temple and the dungeon stop being opposites. Power exchange as psychodrama. Service as devotion. The body as holy text. For those who have felt the sacred in the transgressive and didn't know where to put that.

Who Holds the Room

Two practitioners.
One shared north star.

Kristin and Ayce came to this work from opposite ends of the same journey: she from the pews, he from the pulpit. What they share is the scar tissue of high-control religion and the hard-won knowledge of what lives on the other side of it.

Kristin

Kristin Warnaca

Intimacy Educator · Certified Dominatrix · Somatic Coach

Raised in the Two by Two sect. FBI witness. 17 years coaching at the intersection of religious trauma, erotic sovereignty, and embodied pleasure. Wheel of Consent practitioner. Devotional Kink architect. She knows this terrain because she walked out of it herself.

Ayce

Ayce Kyptyn

Somatic Sexologist · Former Megachurch Leader · Transmasc Practitioner

Former megachurch leader turned somatic sexologist. Ayce brings a transmasc lens, deep liturgical fluency, and the particular authority of someone who helped build the machine before dismantling it from the inside. His work bridges spiritual deconstruction and erotic reclamation with rare precision.

Coming Soon

The Gathering:
monthly, open door.

Not a course. Not a cohort. Think of it as the campfire, not the curriculum. Kristin shows up and talks about what she's actually thinking about. The question that won't leave her alone. The thing that cracked three sessions open in a row this week. The concept she's stress-testing in her own life before she teaches it anywhere.

Come as you are. No prep, no homework, no performance. Just Kristin thinking out loud and a room full of people who speak the same strange language. Whether you've done the deep work with her or you're still deciding if you're ready, the door is open and the cost won't be the thing that stops you.

The waitlist is where you'll hear about it first.

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The Gathering

Bring what you're carrying.
Leave with something you didn't know was missing.

Kristin brings what is alive in her right now. You bring what you've been sitting with. Something happens in the space between. It's less like a lecture and more like sitting at the kitchen table with someone who has already walked the road you're on, and isn't tired of talking about it. Some months it will be a framework she's been stress-testing in her own life. Some months it will be something that cracked three sessions open this week and she can't stop turning it over. You'll leave thinking about something you didn't know you needed to think about.

Format Monthly Online
Investment Low cost · announced via newsletter
Access Open to all · no prerequisites
Status Launching soon
On the Horizon

Radiant Rebuild:
returning when it's ready.

This one went on hold because it deserved more than we could give it at the time. Kristin and Beth are rebuilding it from the inside out: the bones are good, the vision is intact, and when it comes back it will be worth the wait.

We're not announcing dates yet. We're not announcing a price. We're simply collecting the names of people who want to be the first to know when the doors open, so that when they do, the room is already full of the right people.

If you've been waiting for this, put your name on the list. That's all we're asking for right now.

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Radiant Rebuild

The program is resting.
The work is not.

A deep-dive immersion for women who are done surviving and ready to rebuild: their relationship to pleasure, to their body, to desire itself. Co-created by Kristin Warnaca and Beth Buchanan.

While you wait, Kristin and Beth sat down together for Episode 1 of the Permission Granted Podcast: an honest conversation about what this work is, where it came from, and why they're building it. Watch it here →

Format TBD: virtual
Facilitators Kristin Warnaca · Beth Buchanan
Timeline No date set: waitlist only
Status Rebuilding
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Ready for Something Deeper

The group work opens a door.
The 1:1 walks you through it.

If something in The Lord's House cracked something open, or if you're ready to move beyond the container of a group and into something built entirely around you, one session is where that begins. No packages. No prerequisites. You show up. Kristin meets you exactly where you are.

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