Erotic Blueprints

This is a story from our own relationship. The journey into deeper intimacy and connection is beautifully illuminated by the Erotic Blueprints, a tool that has transformed our erotic life from good to great. Our marriage blossomed from a foundation of shared values and intellectual curiosity, having met through a dating app, with clear intentions of seeking a committed partnership. Despite Kristin's vibrant erotic nature and professional focus as a sex coach, she respected my self-imposed celibacy, fostering a bond rooted in emotional resonance before physical intimacy. When we finally chose to merge physically, it felt like a sacred consummation, igniting a cosmic exploration of eroticism guided by the Erotic Blueprints. This ongoing journey is characterized by dynamic exploration and conscious practice, utilizing the Blueprints not just for erotic enhancement but as a shared language that deepens our connection in daily life. We navigate our distinct erotic energies with tools like Blueprint Stacking, allowing us to harmoniously meet each other's needs and desires. This profound attunement, coupled with active consent practices such as the Wheel of Consent, has not only transformed our intimate moments but also enriched our everyday interactions, fostering a richer, more authentic way of relating.

The blog post discusses the rise of "sobergasms," a concept gaining popularity in society where individuals experience sexual pleasure without the influence of alcohol or substances. This trend aligns with the broader sober-curious movement, prompting people to question the necessity of alcohol for social confidence, connection, and pleasure. Sobergasms emphasize a shift towards experiencing intimacy with heightened clarity and intention, offering deeper emotional connections and more fulfilling orgasms.

Major media outlets and social media influencers are contributing to the conversation by highlighting the emotional and sensory benefits of sober sex. Studies show that while alcohol may lower inhibitions, it can also dull physical sensations and lead to regretful experiences. Consequently, more individuals are choosing sober intimacy for enhanced physical sensations, better communication, and a greater sense of ethical and safe sexual practices.

Moreover, sobergasms encourage enhanced body awareness and mindfulness, which many therapists and intimacy coaches highlight as beneficial for both solo and partnered experiences. The absence of alcohol allows individuals to fully engage with their bodies and partners, leading to more immersive and satisfying sexual experiences. Ultimately, this movement towards sober pleasure is reshaping how people think about relationships and intimacy by prioritizing genuine connection and conscious, authentic pleasure.

'Cult to Kink' - The unlikely story of a former good girl turned kinky sex coach! Listen to this 'Exodus healing story' and listen in as three ex-evangelicals talk about high-control religion, purity culture, shame, childhood sexual abuse; and discover personal sovereignty, divine remembrance, autonomy and healing through pleasure and exploring the Kinky Energetic Erotic Blueprint stack. Kristin shares her "Cult to Kink" story of leaving the 2x2 religious cult (under investigation by the FBI) and a brief introduction to Devotional Kink: the Art of Spiritual D/s™. This is what happens when we reach the end of ourselves, and give ourselves radical permission to be 'Naked and Unashamed' - the real us emerges, free and clear.

Have you ever felt like your sex life was missing something, like you were trying to follow a script that didn't quite fit? You're not alone. Many of us have been conditioned to believe there's only one "right" way to experience desire and pleasure, but what if your unique path to sexual fulfillment is as individual as your fingerprint?

Discover the world of Erotic Blueprints™, a revolutionary framework that celebrates the beautiful diversity of human sexuality and empowers you to understand and embrace your own unique erotic language. Through extensive research, it has been found that each of us possesses a distinct "erotic blueprint" that shapes our arousal patterns and preferences, unlocking deeper intimacy and pleasure. There are five primary Blueprints: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, and Shapeshifter, each with its own distinct characteristics and turn-ons.

Embarking on your journey of self-discovery with Erotic Blueprints can transform your sex life. By understanding your unique turn-ons, you can communicate your needs with confidence, elevate your sexual experiences, deepen connections with your partner, and overcome challenges to embrace your full sexual potential. Ready to dive deeper? Explore a wealth of resources, including detailed guides, blog posts, and personalized coaching programs to help you rewrite your sexual story and cultivate a fulfilling and joyful sex life.