The blog post discusses the rise of "sobergasms," a concept gaining popularity in society where individuals experience sexual pleasure without the influence of alcohol or substances. This trend aligns with the broader sober-curious movement, prompting people to question the necessity of alcohol for social confidence, connection, and pleasure. Sobergasms emphasize a shift towards experiencing intimacy with heightened clarity and intention, offering deeper emotional connections and more fulfilling orgasms.
Major media outlets and social media influencers are contributing to the conversation by highlighting the emotional and sensory benefits of sober sex. Studies show that while alcohol may lower inhibitions, it can also dull physical sensations and lead to regretful experiences. Consequently, more individuals are choosing sober intimacy for enhanced physical sensations, better communication, and a greater sense of ethical and safe sexual practices.
Moreover, sobergasms encourage enhanced body awareness and mindfulness, which many therapists and intimacy coaches highlight as beneficial for both solo and partnered experiences. The absence of alcohol allows individuals to fully engage with their bodies and partners, leading to more immersive and satisfying sexual experiences. Ultimately, this movement towards sober pleasure is reshaping how people think about relationships and intimacy by prioritizing genuine connection and conscious, authentic pleasure.
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'Cult to Kink' - The unlikely story of a former good girl turned kinky sex coach! Listen to this 'Exodus healing story' and listen in as three ex-evangelicals talk about high-control religion, purity culture, shame, childhood sexual abuse; and discover personal sovereignty, divine remembrance, autonomy and healing through pleasure and exploring the Kinky Energetic Erotic Blueprint stack. Kristin shares her "Cult to Kink" story of leaving the 2x2 religious cult (under investigation by the FBI) and a brief introduction to Devotional Kink: the Art of Spiritual D/s™. This is what happens when we reach the end of ourselves, and give ourselves radical permission to be 'Naked and Unashamed' - the real us emerges, free and clear.Resources & Links:
- Kristin’s website & podcasts (listen to Juliette Karaman’s interview on The Scrumptious Woman ‘From Good Girl to Pleasure Maven’ for more about the altar building & Marriage 2.0)
- Holy Unapologetic Podcast
- Podcast host & Erotic Blueprints Coach Ayce Krypton
- Hulu documentary link: Secrets of the 2x2 Church
- Beyond Shame: Creating a Healthy Sexy Life on Your Own Terms, Matthias Roberts
- Shameless: A Sexual Reformation/A Case for Not Feeling Bad About Feeling Good (About Sex) by Nadia Bolz Weber
- Pure: Inside the Evangelical Movement That Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free by Linda Kay Kline
- New Topping/Bottoming Books by Dossie Eatons
- Building the Team: Executive Power Exchange by Raven Kaldera & Joshua Tenpenny
- Divine Kink: A Consideration of the Evidence for BDSM as Spiritual Ritual by Sam Greenberg, California Institute of Integral Studies
- Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM & Beyond by Lee Harrington
- Urban Tantra, Sacred Sexuality for the 21st Century by Barbara Carellis
- The Deep Psychology of BDSM & Kink by Douglas Thomas
- Why Are People Into That? A Cultural Investigation of Kink by Tina Horn
- When Someone You Love is Kinky by Dossie Eaton
- The Heart of Dominance by Anton Fulman
- The Enzo: A Philosophy of Submission by Orpheus Black
- The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
- Open Deeply by Kate Loree
- Open Monogamy by Tammy Nelson
- Wired for Pleasure (podcast with Tony Robbins coach & Jaiya & Ian)
Have you ever felt like your sex life was missing something, like you were trying to follow a script that didn't quite fit? You're not alone. Many of us have been conditioned to believe there's only one "right" way to experience desire and pleasure, but what if your unique path to sexual fulfillment is as individual as your fingerprint?
Discover the world of Erotic Blueprints™, a revolutionary framework that celebrates the beautiful diversity of human sexuality and empowers you to understand and embrace your own unique erotic language. Through extensive research, it has been found that each of us possesses a distinct "erotic blueprint" that shapes our arousal patterns and preferences, unlocking deeper intimacy and pleasure. There are five primary Blueprints: Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, and Shapeshifter, each with its own distinct characteristics and turn-ons.
Embarking on your journey of self-discovery with Erotic Blueprints can transform your sex life. By understanding your unique turn-ons, you can communicate your needs with confidence, elevate your sexual experiences, deepen connections with your partner, and overcome challenges to embrace your full sexual potential. Ready to dive deeper? Explore a wealth of resources, including detailed guides, blog posts, and personalized coaching programs to help you rewrite your sexual story and cultivate a fulfilling and joyful sex life.
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