Updates from Wilder Intimacy Coaching

PODCAST: Stop, Drop, and Talk Dirty to Me!

PODCAST: Stop, Drop, and Talk Dirty to Me!
with Tristan Noel LeClair, What Not To Do Podcast

Session notes: 
"We got a request to do a 'dirty talk' episode so I brought in the big guns! Kristin Wilder Warnaca of @wilderintimacy is BACK to give you the world's MOST juciest and educational tutorial. This is for all my beebees in relationships (spectifcally for those who want to be ready for pulling out the tricks confidently when the time comes). 
CLASS IS IN SESSION! Kristin Wilder, sex and intimacy coach extraordinaire is back to teach you how to feel confident in asking what you want from your partner and to give a much needed tutorial on how to TALK DIRTY! Its all here in this episode!! 
Make this valentines day your spiciest ever with a little help from your favorite podcast!" 

PODCAST: How To Love Life Even When Life Keeps Happening

PODCAST: How To Love Life Even When Life Keeps Happening
with Alison McLean, host of Ignite Ur Wellness Business Podcast


Description: If you feel stuck in a dark tunnel, anxious, stressed and overwhelmed and life keeps happening TO you, then you need to hear Kristin's story. She shares all that she's gone through and how she is now living her best life. You will hear how she moved from crisis, trauma, and chronic adrenal fatigue, Lyme disease, and Traumatic Brain Injury to now loving a life of balance and purpose using the OOLA life-coaching framework (one of her many coaching certifications). 

PODCAST: How to Become an Erotic Detective

PODCAST: How to Become an Erotic Detective
with Doug Holt, The Powerful Man Podcast

Description: Are you curious about how to turn your bedroom from a battlefield into an oasis? In this interview with The Powerful Man Podcast, Kristin takes a deeper dive into the topic of innate sexual wiring. You will learn the five categories of Erotic Blueprint Types (and the 5 stages of Sexuality) which can help you better understand yourself, better understand your partner and create a better sexual relationship.

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PODCAST: Anguish, Abuse & Ankle Length Skirts

PODCAST: Anguish, Abuse & Ankle Length Skirts
Anguish, Abuse & Ankle Length Skirts
The Mass Exodus Podcast

Description:
Kristin grew up in the 2x2 religious cult and experienced constant oppression, brain washing, and abuse at the hands of its leaders and members. Eventually, she left it all behind to become an ambassador of healing and wholeness on the other side (check out the golden nuggets of wisdom in the final 20 minutes to hear how Kristin turned the pain of her past into her purpose for the future.)


FBI 2x2 Investigation: report abuse victims

Principles of Pleasure

I Believe: 
  • You're not broken
  • Where you are is just where you are, not who you are
  • You can always get your mojo back
  • Sex gets to be FUN: its how we play as adults
  • Communication is Lubrication - talking about sex can be fun instead of scary
  • There is no upper limit to pleasure
  • Sex is natural, but lovemaking is an art,  it's worth it to ask for help & learn new skills:  no one is born knowing how to be a good lover
  • The more nourished & fulfilled you are sexually, the more successful you are in other areas of life
  • Sexual energy is LIFE FORCE energy
  • Sex is not just something you do; it's a place you go & experience you co-create
  • Sex can be the most healing, transformative, freeing, and joyous part of your relationship
  • There is wisdom in the middle path: neither being ashamed of nor growing addicted to your desires
  • Everyone has experienced trauma. Healing is always possible
  • Pleasure is your birthright
  • You have the capacity and inner resources to achieve anything you wish to create in your own life
  • Sexuality is natural, normal, healthy & safe
 
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 You will notice that many posts here have been written by Eric Metzger. Eric is Kristin’s devoted husband, partner, and the steady foundation in their life and work together. He provides structure, support, and a deep sense of trust, allowing Kristin to fully step into her creativity and purpose. In Wilder Intimacy, he serves as the Business Operations Manager, handling the behind-the-scenes systems that keep everything running smoothly. With a sharp eye for organization and strategy, he ensures that Kristin’s coaching, content, and community have the structure they need to grow. Grounded, thoughtful, and deeply committed, he brings both practicality and heart to their relationship and business. Together, they are building something meaningful—rooted in trust, exploration, and a shared vision for intimacy and connection.